Russian Detective

MIT61 · Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 5:04 am Post subject:

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Anyway, if I checked it as a logged user I would see "Online NOW",

I have not always seen that on some dating sites, depending on the sites refresh (And I don't know what EM refresh is) it can take up to an hour to show that someone is on-line.

Since you are checking without logging on, this is one of the tricks dating sites use to show active membership where it isn't really true.

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wigura7 · New Member Joined: 12 Dec 2007 Posts: 85

MIT61 wrote:

I have not always seen that on some dating sites, depending on the sites refresh (And I don't know what EM refresh is) it can take up to an hour to show that someone is on-line.

I have just logged in to check it out. The status on my profile turned to "Online NOW" immediately.

Urielx · New Member Joined: 21 May 2008 Posts: 1

I'm really starting to doubt the legitimacy of this site.

I was initially impressed because I believed the site to be legit because other sites said it was. So I signed up for the free membership which allows you to send out expression of interests. So I sent out all that I was allowed via the free account. I got mixed resonses... Some positive, some negative, and some totally unanswered.

Well I figured I'd give the paid membership a trial. So anyway after getting the paid membership, I went and decided to email some of the women who responded positively to my expression of interest.

Not a SINGLE one of them has written a letter back, some actually sent letters saying basically " I'm not interested in you sorry." after already saying they reviewed your profile and were interested.

I had only sent letters to womon who stated that they were interested, and that supposedly had a decent competency of english so I'm going to say that lack of language should not be my problem.

wigura7 · New Member Joined: 12 Dec 2007 Posts: 85

Urielx wrote:

Not a SINGLE one of them has written a letter back, some actually sent letters saying basically " I'm not interested in you sorry." after already saying they reviewed your profile and were interested.

Well, it happened to me in some cases, but not all of them. Certainly among the profiles there are real women who really search for the partner.

I think some girls try to decide very quickly if they interested in you or not, and when they are not interested in you anymore, they just break away. But EM cannot be responsible for ideas that are in peoples minds.

Besides I have noticed several profiles suspended by the administrator of this website.

Manny · Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 5:49 pm Post subject:

Urielx wrote:

I had only sent letters to womon who stated that they were interested, and that supposedly had a decent competency of english so I'm going to say that lack of language should not be (er... is not?) my problem.

Who will teach you English? It is clearly not your first language. How do you expect a translator to fare if English is your second laguaage?

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fabryitaly · New Member Joined: 23 Aug 2008 Posts: 1

In my opinion no one can point a finger.
A girl which really want to find a man out of her's country,expecially in east europe where not everyone can afford a travel for meet the people in real,is forced to use at least 1 service.
For the agency,get inside 1 girl more is only a good thing,if is a 100% real is surely much appreciated by the agency owner,it is only good and free reclame.
You can be lucky and meet this person,you can be unlucky and meet a scammer.Scammer doesnt means " a girl wich write false e-mails".
Scammer can be a person which illude you in total,a person thats will meet you in real,a person which have in mind to use you in every possible way.
But if you should think about the fact you can meet a person like that in real life as well,how many people out of the agency get marriage for money? Or you want me to believe a 20 years old girl get marriage with a 60 years old man because she love him?
Actually,with all the bad reclame around,i seriously dubt someone will send again money to 1 person if you dont know her.
I got some scammers on elena's as everyone,but if this person is really the person thats you see in the picture, if the mail address is really her's address but she is not a good person,you cannot really blame Elena for that.

In conclusion, you must be lucky because you will never know with who you are in contact and of course you must be a bit smart.
You can spend money for the girl you like, you can also spend money for some investigation instead,but you still dont know with who you are talking.
Investigation can show she is real,the address is real,the phone number is real,she is exactly like the picture and ???? she can be a good actor and you got your surprise after 1 year.
Maybe she marrie you and come in your country,she do it, but you are not sure she do it for you,maybe she want only leave the country and use you for that.
But as i said before, bad people is not only in this sites,i have some friend in my town thats had the same "good" service from girls they got in real life while travelling there without any agency.At least with agency like Elena's you can have some tips,opinions or suggestions.

I find Elena's site enough suitable,i pay much attention,as much as i can,i think positive of course,at the moment i never see one of this person in real,i just call one girl with a phone (she provided me mobile and home number)and i was wondered to see she call me at least every day.

Good girl,bad girl,scammer,fake...in real life,in internet......is only luck

Regards,
Fabry

p.s. sorry for my english,isnt perfect :p